In recent reflections on Chris Diaz's poignant quote, "All blood does is make you related. But loyalty? It's loyalty that makes you Family," I've delved into the complexities of family dynamics.
While the adage "Blood is thicker than water" echoes through my upbringing, my experiences have revealed a deeper truth. While I cherish certain family ties, I've learned that true family extends beyond genetics. Amidst the vastness of my family tree, I've found solace and kinship in the unwavering loyalty of a dear friend. Despite the infrequency of our conversations, our bond remains steadfast, devoid of the tension and uncertainty that sometimes clouds familial relationships.
Tupac Shakur's poignant words, "Sometimes, the person you'd take a bullet for ends up being the one behind the gun," resonate deeply, reminding me of the complexities inherent in family connections. Indeed, not all bonds forged by blood are synonymous with trust and support.
True family, I've come to realize, consists of those who uplift and cherish us, irrespective of genetic ties. As Aristotle eloquently put it, "A friend is one soul abiding in two bodies." In essence, genuine connections are rooted in the depth of the soul and the unwavering loyalty shared between individuals, transcending the limitations of mere blood relations.
Very true statements, the trick is learning how to select those who will help you maintain your curated peace.
I love this Sheila. I can totally relate. Blood isn’t always thicker than water and I have dear friends like your self who are my “Real and True family”. I really appreciate your blogs, your topics are perfect for me at the time you post it. I really needed this one today, again 🥰 I always look forward to reading blogs and articles from you 🥰