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Lessons in Transparency: The Butterfinger Incident and the Golden Rule in the Workplace"

Writer's picture: Sheila BuswellSheila Buswell

Striking the delicate balance between awareness and discomfort proves to be a challenging feat, but more often than not, the value of knowledge becomes evident. Whether it's an unexpected object protruding from a colleague's nose or, as fate would have it in my own experience, an unintentional Butterfinger mishap, the timeless wisdom encapsulated in the Golden Rule resonates for a reason.



My introduction to the professional realm unfolded on the first day of my mechanical engineering job, marked by eager enthusiasm and the choice to wear cream-colored pants—a seemingly innocent decision that would unwittingly shape the day's narrative. Despite my lack of enthusiasm for breakfast, my devotion to coffee led me to the office candy machine around 10 in the morning, where I settled for a Butterfinger, blissfully ignorant of the impact this choice would have on my day.




As I indulged in my candy bar, immersed in the excitement of my new role, my name echoed across the office, prompting me to promptly set down my partially consumed Butterfinger and coffee to respond. Unbeknownst to me, chocolate had flaked off onto my chair or, worse yet, my cream-colored pants. Oblivious to this culinary mishap, I returned to my cubicle, unknowingly taking a seat on the melted chocolate residue.

It wasn't until later in the day when that I stumbled upon the unintended accessory on my pants. Though no one directly addressed the chocolate stain, discreet office conversations hinted at the unsolicited embellishment on my cream-colored attire. Reflecting on that day, I recognize that had someone summoned the courage to inform me, I could have been spared the embarrassment of unknowingly showcasing chocolate remnants on my pants throughout the day. It's worth noting that assumptions about the nature of the stain circulated, but rest assured, had it been what people speculated, I would have headed home on the first day, regardless.



This experience has indelibly shaped my approach to such situations. Regardless of potential discomfort or the hierarchical position of those involved, I've since made it a personal commitment to inform individuals when something is awry. Recollecting those cream-colored pants acts as a poignant reminder that the honesty, however uncomfortable, is a small price to pay to spare someone else from unwittingly enduring an embarrassing situation.

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