Wednesday, I cast my vote early, standing in line for over an hour to participate in a process I truly value. Voting early gave me a sense of relief—one less thing to worry about as we head toward election day on November 5. But after voting, I learned something surprising: early voting in my area had been “paused” due to a judge's order questioning its legality. Suddenly, the very act I’d completed and felt accomplished about came under scrutiny, and I found myself wondering, Will my vote be counted?
This uncertainty brought up a feeling that’s become all too familiar this year: the recognition that so many things are beyond my control. At times, it’s frustrating, even unsettling, to have these things pop up unexpectedly and remind me that not everything is within my power to influence. Yet, there’s a chance for growth here—a chance to practice acceptance in a season full of uncertainty.
Maya Angelou’s words resonate with me in moments like this: “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” No matter the outcome, I voted, I contributed my voice, and that’s something to feel proud of. I can’t control the rulings, but I can control how I respond and how much I let the situation affect me.
My husband, who spent years sailing, often said, “You can’t control the wind, but you can adjust your sails.” That’s a powerful reminder for moments like these, especially when it comes to this election and beyond. Instead of being bogged down by what might happen, I’m choosing to focus on my own actions, the steps I can control, and the values I stand for.
In the end, I’m reminded of another favorite quote by Roy T. Bennett: “Stop worrying about what you can’t control and shift your energy to what you can create.” In a non-swing state, the ultimate outcome may be unlikely to change. But that doesn’t make my participation any less valuable. I did what I could, casting my vote with intention, and that’s where my responsibility ends. It’s out of my hands now, and whatever happens, I’ll let the chips fall where they may.
For anyone else feeling the weight of uncertainty this season, may we find peace in what we can control, let go of what we can’t, and move forward with resilience.
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